Sieg came from an all boys school.
Every mention of his status as an alumni had him beaming with pride. Naturally,
he was not the only one that had delusional symptoms, also known as arrogance.
In my school, half of my batch were from single gender institutions. All but a
few were demonstrating the same kind of aura and it was baffling to
watch as they awed in respect when each one of them introduced their
"single gender" alma mater.
To me, it doesn't matter
which school they are from because at the end of the day, they are right here
with me in the same school and course. I didn't take such a hearty course
introduction to mind as it is hardly my problem whether or not they are childish.
But I was wrong.
"You would be perfect if you
came from an all girls school" these words flowed out of Sieg's lips
without any hesitation or form of shame. This was a few days after I was made
known of his feelings towards me.
I was furious. Is my individuality
or price tag weighed on my previous school? I am not ashamed of where I came
from. If I could, I would choose the same secondary school all over again
because it made me who I am now.
"Single gender schools? How is
that significant or a big deal? " I question Sieg.
"It's just better. Everyone
knows it" He argued, without any form of thought or explanation.
The moment he answered, I realize
how shallow society can be, especially those who come from
such institutions. Not saying all of its students are of such form.
But those who has the same mindset as Sieg has some serious insecurity issues
that needs the school as form a shield to enhance their individuality.
Because of their higher than average
school fees, it is only natural that most of the students enrolled come from
families that are confident that they can pay the fees - in other words,
wealthier backgrounds. If you're struggling to make ends meet, would you rather
pay 10 odd dollars per semester in a neighbourhood school, or 300 per
semester in a single gender school? I'm guessing it wouldn't be the
latter - Well unless you only have one child to feed. Not to forget mentioning
the cost for school materials, allowances and special "donations"
made in goodwill, which allows the school to build better facilities and hire
better teachers.
As a result, the school would be
swarming with kids, who of course, can afford unlimited amount of money on the
best tuition and facilities to aid their studies. Which gives them a
huge advantage to most kids from neighbourhood or average schools - naturally
that would mean that the average score for such institutions are
higher than "normal" schools. Thus the mindset that Single
gender schools are better.
But that doesn't mean that
they are better than other people. Surely they may have the advantage to a
certain sort of exposure such as sitting on high horses, going for multiple
extra lessons after actual school hours, etc. But that does not define their
capabilities as an individual be it in school or the real world.
Sieg has since then stopped bragging
about his alma marter after spending a significant amount of time with me and
has understood that, all those do not matter when it comes to making human
interactions or progressing in school work.
It was a tough tide to conquer
though, as there are still waves in the sea.
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